Today has been a good day for both of us...but becoz of my selfish interests, i think i just spoil it..
It's never easy to be myself..too emotional, too pathetic..if only i can change the real me..i don't want to hurt him..i just wanted to have contentment in life..but i still seem to have interest on some things which comes out naturally to a person, to a woman like me...diamonds are forever..i value our engagement ring even though value is not on it but he still chose this for me so i have to have it and i have to just be contented..that's how he realizes things..i know i had been very hard to understand..all this time, i'm the mistake he made..i just hope he'll see the deepest side of me..and i hope he also realize that loving is giving and giving means no hesitations..just real intentions..
Monday, August 10, 2009
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
beyond UNDERSTANDING...
Fear to tell is NOT considered as lying..
but when you're asked and you didn't tell, THAT is more than lying..it's CHEATING..
Nowadays, pipol tend to take for granted those who are important to them..
Life is not always on the smooth side but choices will push you to a better path one must take.
A person, who truly loves, will make good decisions to make a relationship happy.
One must take care of the other, and the other must do the same..
Well, we have to admit that it's not always that easy to please the one that you love but when it comes to being true to the person, we must learn how to sacrifice even our own needs..
Experience will teach us how to make some changes in the future..it is not happening just for the reason to make it happen but for us to learn and will not repeat the same mistakes.
Understanding is a great deal in a successful relationship....but do you really know what is a good UNDERSTANDING means??
Understanding means, going out of your own thinking and cultivating more about the subject.. it is sometimes more on SACRIFICING just to say you UNDERSTOOD what is really happening and why such thing was being decided eventhough it's not meant to be.
A good example is, the person you've been with is such a happy person, but while days are passing by, she's creating a very disturbing attitude as tears will just suddenly fell without a clear reason...What kind of Understanding will you be analyzing?
Is it,
a. she's just acting weird becoz today i didn't cook breakfast or
b. maybe not cooking breakfast today upsets her, but more to that reason, maybe it is not the main factor at all, she just suddenly felt tired becoz of my previous action as well..
and that will came up a new solution..you have to really dig and dig and dig just to get the answer.
don't just limit yourself to what you're seeing..
As we have known, pipol change, and when they do, even if it happens to yourself, you know it's impossible to bring back the old feeling once it's gone...
but when you're asked and you didn't tell, THAT is more than lying..it's CHEATING..
Nowadays, pipol tend to take for granted those who are important to them..
Life is not always on the smooth side but choices will push you to a better path one must take.
A person, who truly loves, will make good decisions to make a relationship happy.
One must take care of the other, and the other must do the same..
Well, we have to admit that it's not always that easy to please the one that you love but when it comes to being true to the person, we must learn how to sacrifice even our own needs..
Experience will teach us how to make some changes in the future..it is not happening just for the reason to make it happen but for us to learn and will not repeat the same mistakes.
Understanding is a great deal in a successful relationship....but do you really know what is a good UNDERSTANDING means??
Understanding means, going out of your own thinking and cultivating more about the subject.. it is sometimes more on SACRIFICING just to say you UNDERSTOOD what is really happening and why such thing was being decided eventhough it's not meant to be.
A good example is, the person you've been with is such a happy person, but while days are passing by, she's creating a very disturbing attitude as tears will just suddenly fell without a clear reason...What kind of Understanding will you be analyzing?
Is it,
a. she's just acting weird becoz today i didn't cook breakfast or
b. maybe not cooking breakfast today upsets her, but more to that reason, maybe it is not the main factor at all, she just suddenly felt tired becoz of my previous action as well..
and that will came up a new solution..you have to really dig and dig and dig just to get the answer.
don't just limit yourself to what you're seeing..
As we have known, pipol change, and when they do, even if it happens to yourself, you know it's impossible to bring back the old feeling once it's gone...
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Things are a lot better now..
wow! I miss blogging...
i'm no longer connected with accenture..after then i worked as a bank teller in Banco De Oro SM North Edsa B and meet new friends...
Right now, i'm in Singapore Zoological Gardens, not so happy with my work but it's quite ok..
I'm very much happy engaged to Michael Clemente and i've met his loving family, too..
There's been a lot of ups and downs in my life now..but i have to say, i've learned a lot from it.
I'm finding a new job now, for good..and planning our upcoming wedding in March..
i'm no longer connected with accenture..after then i worked as a bank teller in Banco De Oro SM North Edsa B and meet new friends...
Right now, i'm in Singapore Zoological Gardens, not so happy with my work but it's quite ok..
I'm very much happy engaged to Michael Clemente and i've met his loving family, too..
There's been a lot of ups and downs in my life now..but i have to say, i've learned a lot from it.
I'm finding a new job now, for good..and planning our upcoming wedding in March..
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